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70 Gay Men on How They Handle ‘Size Gap’

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51. I’d honestly prefer to swap some of my girth for either another inch of d**k or height.

“Mine’s slightly longer/thicker than his is, I’d honestly prefer to swap some of my girth for either another inch of d**k or height. Getting it inside him takes planning, preparation and poppers help a lot. Not that I’m particularly thick, but he’s got a really small build and a ridiculously tight arse.”
TheBabyEatingBishop

52. For hookups, guys want the challenge of taking a massive c**k like a badge of honor so I’m usually rejected for lack of length.

“I’m usually the smaller one. For hookups, guys want the challenge of taking a massive c**k like a badge of honor so I’m usually rejected for lack of length. Not all guys are Size Queens though. These are the ones that like me and out common interests that lead to a relationship. I found that where I lack in size, I tend to make up with other stuff (oral, body massage, rimming…). Life has its balance I guess.
I also noticed hung guys rely solely on their d**k so they tend to be anticlimactic. Their sheer size hits the spot by happenstance, but no skill is involved. These are the times I pretend to enjoy the session like I’m trying to win an Emmy.”
Orylus

53. My partner is the long one but I’m the thick guy so I can take his no problem, but he has a difficult time taking mine.

“My partner is the long one but I’m the thick guy so I can take his no problem, but he has a difficult time taking mine. Lol even sucking it, he can’t go deep throat cuz it won’t make past the teeth. So I bottom more than I’d like to. He does try, though.”
bayareabear

54. The only issue we have when it comes to size is that he requires a lot of prep and recovery time.

“I’m a top with a large penis (8.5-9) and my husband is a bottom that’s around 6. The only issue we have when it comes to size is that he requires a lot of prep and recovery time. It doesn’t affect our relationship otherwise in terms of masculinity or any such nonsense. We split chores and house roles evenly and most people assume we’re vers/flip because we are both considered masculine.”
vcarw77

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55. It doesn’t bother me at all. It suits my personality because I’m a submissive effeminate bottom.

“It doesn’t bother me at all. It suits my personality because I’m a submissive effeminate bottom. I generally present myself as androgynous or as a feminine male. Once in a while I present as female.

I generally go for dominate masculine guys with bigger dongs. They’re either the older daddy types, macho protector types, or bad boy types. I only like tops. It wrecks my perception of them if they want to bottom.

A lot of the guys I go out with are older than me and from a generation when gays were persecuted, so they present themselves as straight men and pursue more effeminate guys. My relationships tend to have a lot more in common with stereotypical straight relationships.

About the presenting as female thing, I had a phase where I thought I was transsexual, but the reality is I’m not really. I’m probably what’s known as gender-fluid.

If I were more inclined to be a dominate top, then I would probably have a lot of problems having a small d**k, but fortunately that’s not me.”
has_a_3_inch_penis

56. He’s considerably bigger than me, I don’t mind it, I get to be the bottom.

“He’s considerably bigger than me, I don’t mind it, I get to be the bottom. Yay for me. I would love to be as big as him though.”
bipolar-bear

57. It has zero bearing on anything, to be honest.

“Smaller than some of the guys I’ve hooked up with, bigger in all dimensions than my boyfriend. It has zero bearing on anything, to be honest.

As far as I’m concerned, anything over 8 inches is too much for anal. Dunno if you’ve ever been f****d, but I don’t like getting my guts re-arranged when I do. Size queens, y’all are weird.”
Arden-Vaul

58. As a bottom, I really don’t like big d***s as I find them more painful than pleasurable.

“My husband’s is bigger than mine. But he thought until recently mine was bigger. It was entertaining. I think it’s because we view our own as smaller than it actually is because the angle we see it at is misleading. There is some science behind it. Mine’s a lot thicker though. I’ve never had a situation in the past where it matters though. As a bottom, I really don’t like big d***s as I find them more painful than pleasurable and big d***d men don’t feel like they need to perform because of the size of their member. The smaller d***d guy who ever f****d me was actually really good in bed. I have this theory that the smaller a penis has a direct correlation to how good they are in bed because they care more since they have to compensate for smaller size.”
blackoutstin

59. Ex had a huge one. Had never slept with anyone else and thought mine was tiny for years.

“Ex had a huge one. Had never slept with anyone else and thought mine was tiny for years. I’ve since been bigger than everyone else I’ve been with. Definitely been a confidence boost! It’s all relative.”
BoyKingOfSweden

60. I have no pain tolerance, so I’m pretty much the only one who can top.

“My boyfriend is huge in both length and girth, which I love, but I have no pain tolerance, so I’m pretty much the only one who can top. I have no body shame, since I’m a nudist, and he seems perfectly content. My friends say I have an attractive body anyway, so maybe that’s a factor.”
JackBond1234

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