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70 Gay Men on How They Handle ‘Size Gap’

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41. I usually have the bigger one but I’m also usually the bottom.

“I usually have the bigger one but I’m also usually the bottom. The only bigger guy I’ve had was my ex and while it was a nice surprise, it wasn’t a deciding factor in dating him. As long as I can feel it in there when we do things, I don’t care much, but bigger is almost always nicer to play with. Kind of like tits… (Not everyone likes big boobs but it sure does seem most of the time straight guys like them bigger).”
carlosfhdez

42. It’s turned into kind of a joke where I talk about my d**k being bigger whenever he gets too cocky (heh).

“I have the bigger d**k in my relationship (mine’s around 6.5 and his is 5 inches maybe a little more). It’s turned into kind of a joke where I talk about my d**k being bigger whenever he gets too cocky (heh). He doesn’t acknowledge it much except when we have drunk sex then he talks about how nice my d**k is and how he’s jealous of me. He never admits it when he’s sober but it makes me feel good.

Funny thing is he always wants to top so I’m normally the bottom with a bigger d**k (though he bottoms sometimes). It’s really apparent when we frot (straight people: it’s when you put your d***s together) but I kind of like having the bigger d**k. Overall it’s not huge deal but it can lead to the smaller one being envious.”
specfagular

43. It becomes a novelty. Fun to look at but not much to do with it.

“It becomes a novelty. Fun to look at but not much to do with it.

I’ve been relegated to being a bottom because topping people is usually impossible because they just can’t take it.

God the humblebrag is strong with this post. I’ll see myself out.”
Need_a_Ladder

44. I’m bi, and I’m super turned on by dudes with small d***s.

“I’m bi, and I’m super turned on by dudes with small d***s. I date a guy with a pretty small (probably between 3 and 4 inches) c**k and it’s great for me. Super turns me on, and I can suck it and take it in the ass like a champ. I have a pretty large c**k (7.5 and pretty thick) so the contrast is pretty intense.

We don’t talk about it a lot but he knows damn well I love his c**k and that’s what I was originally looking for. Sometimes I hold them together and jerk them which is hot AF seeing the contrast.”
evil_tugboat_capn

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45. I’m a total bottom so I love the whole psychologic element of being smaller than him.

“My partner’s d**k is pretty massive… about 9″ and thick, whereas I’m about 6″ (at a push) and not as thick.

I’m a total bottom so I love the whole psychologic element of being smaller than him d**k wise as well as being shorter… it plays well into my f****d-up fantasies 😈”
Pazzam

46. I fall in love with a person, not with their genitals.

“Honestly, no big deal for me, I fall in love with a person, not with their genitals, however, I do specify that I am strictly a top, since I don’t enjoy anal stimulation, respect that, and we are cool.

Sure, you can play with my butt and stuff, but the moment you stick something in, that is the moment you get something bitten off.

I have noticed some guys get intimidated by mine, but I am very gentle, and if they don’t want to do anything, fine by me, we can cuddle and share hj/bj, and I will be happy as long as we both enjoy it and cuddle.”
Aedrian87

47. I’m dating a trans woman whose is 100% female except for her penis, which is just over 9 inches.

“I have always been happy with my d**k. It’s about 6 fully erect. I’m dating a trans woman whose is 100% female except for her penis, which is just over 9 inches.

At first it was a shock but I love it and she can’t take much bigger than me anyways so it is perfect.”
non_lurker

48. As long as it’s not freakishly large or small, I don’t think most guys really care.

“It’s never been an issue. As long as it’s not freakishly large or small, I don’t think most guys really care.

I think it’s probably the way a lot of straight guys view breast size. Like really large breasts, yay, but average and smaller breasts are still yay. I’ve never heard of a guy who was about to hookup but then decided not to when he found out his partner was a b cup.

Penis just defaults to good for me.”
PM_me_yr_dicks

49. It’s never been a big deal. I just ask to bottom more.

“It’s never been a big deal. I just ask to bottom more. When I feel like being top, he technically can’t complain because he knows I have to take in more than he does, we don’t force each other into anything though.

I’ve always opened up different stages of a relationship by putting my hands on his shoulders and leading with ‘Full disclosure…’ then saying whatever I have to say. With my current bf it was ‘Full disclosure, your d**k is bigger.’ and I hadn’t even seen it yet, it was just a reasonable/easy conclusion since I had seen him lie on his back once and the outline was pretty substantial. It’s just an easy way for me to own the situation and get ahead of it. If I wait for the ‘reveal moment’ then I might get a sense of shyness.”
Tnargkiller

50. I prefer smaller guys.

“I prefer smaller guys, and I’m probably average in length (maybe?) and definitely not as thick as what I assume is average. Deepthroating~ a 3-4″ d**k is super fun, so yeah, gimme some of that. BUT if I’m drunk and you’re huge then you might have a chance.”
gigemgay

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