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70 Gay Men on How They Handle ‘Size Gap’

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21. Usually doesn’t matter but some straight guys looking to experiment have gotten scared off haha.

“I’m bi and fairly well endowed. Usually doesn’t matter but some straight guys looking to experiment have gotten scared off haha.”
canihavealittlepiece

22. I’m about the same length as my current partner, but he’s substantially girthier.

“I’m about the same length as my current partner, but he’s substantially girthier. The guys we’ve hooked up with have both noted we’re both ‘big’ but based on the statistics we’re average in length. Still need to get around to getting a good girth measurement for myself, but I generally have other priorities when I have an erection.”
dacemcgraw

23. Knowing I don’t have a huge d**k makes me work harder at being good in bed.

“I’ve been in both situations (I think I’m pretty average size-wise) and it never really came up or mattered. Plus, knowing I don’t have a huge d**k makes me work harder at being good in bed, which seems to have paid off so
¯\_(ツ)_/¯”
szol

24. I’m usually the bigger guy and I get no complaints.

“I’m usually the bigger guy and I get no complaints. Although I did have this one bottom who was VERY well endowed. It was fun to watch bounce around.”
Rabgix

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25. Although as a bottom, I actually like to avoid a larger penis for comfort reasons.

“I have been always larger (I sit around 7.5), and it was interesting for me starting out because I always thought that I just magically found guys only with smaller members (granted, I most often end up with white, Asian, or Latino men). I didn’t realize until after dating a bit and some research that I was actually larger than average which was a cool little surprise I guess.

Even though I’m open to flip flopping, I basically bottom all the time since guys seem to prefer it. A lot of guys are really into having a bottom with a larger member (and apparently I have a really nice ass, but I’m not a butt guy). So it works out pretty well for the most part.

The only major drawback I could say would be that if a guy isn’t experienced enough, when they’re giving head it can be a little lackluster. Other than that, do recommend. (Although as a bottom, I actually like to avoid a larger penis for comfort reasons.)”
OroroLoL

26. Believe it or not, penis size isn’t always at the top of the list of worries with a gay couple.

“I don’t think we’ve ever bothered to measure in the 13 years we’ve been together. Believe it or not, penis size isn’t always at the top of the list of worries with a gay couple.”
acidfusion

27. It’s not an issue. Mine’s bigger and his is smaller and that’s it.

“It’s not an issue. Mine’s bigger and his is smaller and that’s it.”
Jovial_Bard

28. It’s more of a chore having the bigger penis.

“It’s more of a chore having the bigger penis.

I’m more of a top, whilst me partner is the bottom, however, ‘getting it in’ is more difficult for him. It’s not such much the length that’s the issue, it’s the girth.

My partner has admitted mine is bigger than his, and he never seems bothered about it. However, and I’d never say this to him, I do wish his was at least the same size as mine.”
harmyb

29. It’s more important that the other guy knows what to do with it!

“I’m gay but I’m a Redditor, if you know what I mean, so I can’t speak from experience, but I never really think about penis size when thinking about this kind of stuff. I’ve heard it’s actually pretty rare for people to be that hung up (as it were) on the size of the penis – it’s more important that the other guy knows what to do with it!

Tbh I’m just posting so I can save this thread. It’s not often that there’s a Reddit thread this big where people can talk about gay sex and just call it sex.”
Homusubi

30. Size is almost never a topic of conversation.

“Surprisingly, it’s never been an issue. I’ve been with bigger guys than me and smaller guys than me, and honestly size is almost never a topic of conversation.”
thetexasunicorn

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