11. Yay! ….wait
“Sometimes, you have the bigger d**k, and you’re like ‘Yay! ….wait.’
And sometimes, they have the bigger d**k, and you’re like ‘Yay! ….wait.’”
12. It’s either a huge turn-on for the other guy or he becomes a little insecure.
“I’m a bit larger than average which catches guys off guard since I’m usually the bottom and I’m pretty short (~7.5″, 5’7″) I find that it’s either a huge turn-on for the other guy or he becomes a little insecure (especially if he’s a ‘total top’).”
13. It’s only frustrating when they’re girthier, because it’s more work to give a blow job.
“I’ve never been with anyone longer than me, but I have been with people girthier. In the end it’s only frustrating because when they’re girthier, it’s more work to give a blow job because you have to be more aware of your teeth/everything else, but by and large it’s never been an issue that comes up (well…).”
14. I’m the smaller one but it doesn’t bother me much because I’m taller in height.
“I’m the smaller one but it doesn’t bother me much because I’m taller in height. I’m 5’10 he’s around 5’7 haha. His member however is about 3 inches longer so it’s a pretty big difference.”
15. Other than the initial ‘Mine’s bigger than yours!’ it’s fine.
“Other than the initial ‘Mine’s bigger than yours!’ it’s fine. Really depends on who has it, and how they use it.”
16. Doesn’t really matter too much.
“Doesn’t really matter too much. My last boyfriend had a smaller one than I did, but I’m a big old bottom so he always topped. It was basically the perfect fit for me though, I’ve only ever c*m hands free with him. He was also three inches shorter in height than me. I’m decently tall so I’m bigger than a lot of guys I’m with. I never mind. And when they are bigger, Woo Hoo!”
17. Unless the guy has a 2-inch d**k or a 12-inch c**k, it’s not generally an issue.
“Unless the guy has a 2-inch d**k or a 12-inch c**k, it’s not generally an issue. With that in mind, it’s not a big deal unless you make it a big deal.
Unless you’re a size queen most guys are comfortable with anything between the 4-6 inch average for anal. A man’s prostate is only a few inches up their bum so that’s where you’ll get ultimate pleasure. Seriously, straight guys are missing out so much on mind-blowing orgasms because of the taboo aspect of playing with their ass.
I’ve been both the smaller and bigger guy in my relationships and it’s never been an issue in either situation. With that in mind, bigger guys tend to be a bit lazier when it comes to sex, while smaller guys are a lot more enthusiastic. The smaller guy will definitely not want to let you see them flaccid, while the bigger guy won’t usually have a problem with it.
In terms of power dynamics, I would say 95% of gay guys wouldn’t think that having a bigger c**k makes you more of a man than your partner.”
18. I think it only matters if one penis is significantly above or below average.
“I think it only matters if one penis is significantly above or below average. Less than 4.5 inches is disappointing and greater than 8 inches is impossible to deal without serious prep (stretching a few times a day for several days). But if we’re both average size, then it doesn’t matter.
For reference, I tried to hook up with a guy with a 9-inch d**k a few times. I wasn’t able take it, but he seemed really happy that I would even try. I suspect he doesn’t get to top often.”
19. It’s just a fact of life.
“It’s just a fact of life. We’re both vers, but he ends up topping more than I do because he’s got a smaller d**k (so, there’s less prep work required and less recuperation time afterwards)”
20. It’s OK because I’m the one almost 100% in the bottom bunk.
“Being a tall guy (6’1) with a shorter one, and BF being shorter in size but longer dong, it’s OK because I’m the one almost 100% in the bottom bunk, so there hasn’t been any issues in bed at all.”