How to Achieve the Hands-Free Orgasm of Your Wet Dreams

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Hands-free is the way to be!

Remember the incredible feeling of getting off in your dreams as a teenager? Well, with the right tools and a little practice you can experience the intensity of a hands-free orgasm again. You have probably seen hands-free ejaculations in adult films, and it looks easy to accomplish. Unfortunately, it’s not as simple as it seems. For those who can use their sphincter muscles and imagination to cum, we salute you. But, for the rest of us who can’t focus long enough to get off, there’s a solution. It’s called a prostate-assisted orgasm, and it’s fucking awesome.

Prostate-assisted orgasms are wildly intense and can last a lot longer than a penile-induced climax. Some men prefer to use dildos to stimulate the prostate, but we discovered a product that produces explosive hands-free orgasms.

It’s called the Lux LX3+ Male Prostate Stimulator, and if you use code GAYETY at AdamMale.com, you’ll save 35 percent off the highest priced item in your cart and free shipping on your entire order. Although a true hands-free ejaculation is produced as its name indicates — without the use of your hands — prostate-assisted orgasms are equally powerful and gratifying.



Here are the six steps we followed to achieve a nearly hands-free orgasm:

Step 1: Prepare

Anytime anal play is involved, you’ll want to at the very least shower and clean your hole. Some men take it a step further and douche, but it’s not entirely necessary. You know your body, so if you feel dirty, try going to the bathroom and cleaning your ass before you insert anything.

Step 2: Lube up and stretch

We can’t stress the importance of using lube and loosening up your hole. Make sure to use a high-quality product, like Pur or Str8cam Lube, and use your fingers to massage your anus in anticipation being penetration.

Step 3: Find your prostate

If you don’t massage your prostate regularly, take a moment to find it. It’s located behind your penis, so when you insert your penis curl your finger in a “come hither” motion until you feel it press on a walnut-sized lump. That’s your prostate. Moving on.

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Step 4: Slide your toy inside your hole

The Lux LX3+ is designed to hit your prostate, so it’s relatively easy to position it in the right spot. But you can stimulate your prostate with many different toys. Once your toy of choice is inside you, turn it on and choose the speed and sensation that feels best.

Step 5: Use your muscles

The goal is to cum without masturbating or manipulating the toy. Flex your sphincter muscle and abs repeatedly during the session. The movement will inch you closer to climaxing and add to the internal sensations created by the prostate massagers. You can also clench your butt cheeks to help pivot the device and plant it firmly on your prostate. When your muscles relax, the pressure created by your toy will dissipate and create a stroking motion on your P-spot.

Step 6: Don’t give up

While this method can take a bit longer, the result is entirely worth the time investment. So, keep tensing your muscles and wait patiently for the Lux LX3+ to bring you the hands-free, toe-curling orgasm of your wettest dreams.

Although the Lux LX3+ is the best thing since sliced bread, there are other toys that can also deliver a mind-blowing orgasms. If you’re not sold, consider one of the following options:

L’arque Prostate Massager: The unique design of the shaft ensures direct contact with your prostate. With its continuous quakes and perfect positioning, your cock will ooze with precum in seconds.

Rude-BoyThis is a great prostate massager for beginners. The Rude-Boy’s smooth silicone shaft slips comfortably into your anus and provides room for play. Its unique design allows you to sit on it and rock to an explosive hands-free finish.

Tom of Finland Silicone P-Spot VibeTom of Finland would have loved this guy. The P-Spot Vibe pleasures you inside and out. It’s uniquely angled to apply force directly to your G-Spot while tickling your taint with its perineum stimulator.

Aneros Mgx Prostate StimulatorThis toy has been dubbed the “Male G-spot Massager,” and it lives up to its nickname. With repeated use, you can achieve stronger climaxes and longer waves of orgasmic release.



Remember to use promo code GAYETY to save 35 percent off the highest priced item in your cart and get free shipping (in the United States). A few items aren’t eligible for the full discount, but there are lots of great toys to choose from.

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