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9 BJ Techniques Every Gay Man Should Master

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Nothing is better than really good head. Unfortunately, there are so many guys out there who haven’t mastered the art of oral love. Truly amazing head is all about surprises. We’ve all tried the typical bob and drop technique, but there are so many BJ techniques out there.

Practice makes perfect. Over the years, I’ve discovered numerous ways to pleasure a man, and it’s all about sensations. Here’s are nine blowjob techniques every man should master:

1. The suspense of sucking

Basically, you gotta tease the shit out of him before any of your wet delicious lips touch his head. Use what God gave you: Breath, moisture, hands, kisses, use it all until his body begs for your lips. Remember, the beginning sets the foundation for the whole job, so make it count.

2. Porn star slurp

You need to turn yourself on before you get him off. If you him to beg for more, you have to make him believe that you LOVE having his pole in your mouth. In other words, don’t make it seem like it’s a chore. Follow in the footsteps of a porn star and make it about you. Going down on a man is hot as Hell. So, why not put extra effort in it for you.

3. The Grapefruit Technique

Thanks to Auntie Angel via Cosmopolitan, everyone can give their man a ruby red treat. All you gotta do is put a grapefruit in a bowl of warm water, than take it out and roll it on a table with pressure to get it juicy inside. Slice both ends off and cut a hole big enough to fit his member. When you’re going down on him, place the grapefruit on top of his dick and slide it up and down while you’re giving him head. It will feel like he’s penetrating you and getting a BJ at the same time.

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4. Cough drop method

Simple enough. Put a cough drop (preferably mint) in your mouth and let it dissolve. Then start making out and slide your way down to his package. Go down on him while breathing heavily on his balls and legs — don’t tell him you have a cough drop. The result? A shivering, whimpering and spine-crunching ejaculation.

5. Corkscrew approach

Once you get him wet and hard, start moving up and down his shaft — slow at first, then with more intension. Find your rhythm, and then start turning your head from side to side. Allow your tongue to do a corkscrew pattern. Move that head; the spontaneous movement changes the normal routine of just up-down-up-down.

6. Cream pie technique

Who doesn’t love foodie foreplay? For those gay guys who hate the taste of semen, buy a can of whipped cream and squirt a few drops on his cock. Then, pretend it’s a creamy popsicle? You could try cherry syrup, vanilla syrup or even whipped liquor. By the time he finishes, you will feel like you’re drinking a shake. Who doesn’t love that?

7. Swallow and dip

To challenge your gag reflex, it’s a hell of a lot easier to gently slip it further down your throat by inhaling slowly and dipping quickly. While he’s in your mouth, open your lips wide and take it deeper while inhaling at the same time. Let the lips grip deeper towards the base and hold it there for a while, then slide his shaft out of your mouth like a snake.

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8. Body buffet

I like to treat my man like the wallpaper in Willy Wonka & the Chocolate Factory. Remember that movie? They licked the wallpaper and it tasted like the fruit or food pictured. Well, I like to sprinkle a little bit of icing, flavored lube or whipped cream around his body parts (his ears, neck, taint, tip, ass, wherever). Then I have my way with him like a feast. Everyone wins!

9. Fake gagging tactic

There’s something about sound effects that make a man feel more powerful than he is, which then makes him give a lot more than he’s giving. Why not help him along by pretending like you’re gagging on his schlong? All it takes is a slight sound or breath or moan or grunt. He’ll naturally want to give more and more to you, and when he does you can just give it right back.

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